{"id":1105,"date":"2022-02-10T14:10:06","date_gmt":"2022-02-10T12:10:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/?page_id=1105"},"modified":"2025-10-07T02:03:00","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T00:03:00","slug":"book-reviews-2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/book-reviews-2\/","title":{"rendered":"2025 Book Reviews"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"540\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Midlife-Hours-Book-Reviews-page-banner.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5058\" style=\"width:706px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Midlife-Hours-Book-Reviews-page-banner.jpg 960w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Midlife-Hours-Book-Reviews-page-banner-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Midlife-Hours-Book-Reviews-page-banner-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>New Zealand&#8217;s chillly winter is <em>slowly<\/em> making way for Spring. I spent many hours tucked under a cozy blanket or between the pages of my journal, fingers wrapped around the heated coffee mugs and bowls of hearty home-made soup.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My winter reading and writing were mostly shaped around midlife transitions and learning more about the landscape of this powerful season. I stumbled on some powerful books that led to several &#8216;aha moments&#8217; in my ongoing journey towards peaceful, yet empowered living in this chapter. Here&#8217;s three books that kept me glued to the pages:<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/When-the-Heart-Waits-Sue-Monk-Kidd-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5027\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/When-the-Heart-Waits-Sue-Monk-Kidd-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/When-the-Heart-Waits-Sue-Monk-Kidd-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/When-the-Heart-Waits-Sue-Monk-Kidd-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/When-the-Heart-Waits-Sue-Monk-Kidd.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p id=\"book-review\">In <em>When the Heart Waits<\/em>, Sue Monk Kidd invites readers to embrace the uncomfortable stillness of life\u2019s waiting seasons as sacred ground for transformation. Through her own story of loss, longing, and spiritual reawakening, she shows how patience, solitude, and deep listening become catalysts for renewal. For those navigating midlife transitions, her wisdom echoes the heart of <em><a href=\"https:\/\/glynisklein.substack.com\/\">The Midlife Homecoming<\/a><\/em> series\u2014a reminder that waiting is not stagnation, but the soul\u2019s quiet work of healing, integration, and becoming whole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Read full review <a href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/07\/when-the-heart-waits-sue-monk-kidd\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"692\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Falling-Upward-Richard-Rohr-692x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5029\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Falling-Upward-Richard-Rohr-692x1024.jpg 692w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Falling-Upward-Richard-Rohr-203x300.jpg 203w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Falling-Upward-Richard-Rohr-768x1136.jpg 768w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Falling-Upward-Richard-Rohr.jpg 1014w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 692px) 100vw, 692px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><em>Falling Upward<\/em> is a soulful guide to the second half of life. Rohr reminds us that the second half of life is a deeper, inward growth journey \u2014 no longer built around the structures that framed the first half. Rather, leaning into the evolving self and integration our past experiences with the midlife self, gathering all the fragments of our story into a more spacious, compassionate whole. What I appreciate most about Richard Rohr\u2019s <em>Falling Upward<\/em> is his open-hearted lens on transformation. He invites us to see life not as a single path toward perfection but as a spiral of unfolding \u2014 where every fall, every failure, even every contradiction, becomes part of our becoming.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rohr doesn\u2019t ask us to abandon faith or tradition, but to widen them \u2014 to hold mystery, paradox, and multiple truths with equal reverence. This generosity of spirit feels deeply needed in a world that grows more polarized by the day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This message deeply resonates with <em><a href=\"https:\/\/glynisklein.substack.com\/\">The Midlife Homecoming<\/a><\/em>, my reflective series on navigating the transition to a new life chapter with compassion and clarity. Both journeys ask the same quiet question: how might we live from a deeper center, unafraid to be unmoored \u2014 yet anchored from within? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you&#8217;re keen to learn more about how Rohr&#8217;s insights align with the series, read full article <a href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/07\/falling-upward-when-the-ground-beneath-you-shifts\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Living-Between-Worlds-James-Hollis-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5030\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Living-Between-Worlds-James-Hollis-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Living-Between-Worlds-James-Hollis-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Living-Between-Worlds-James-Hollis-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/10\/Living-Between-Worlds-James-Hollis.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Drawing deeply on Jungian psychology, Hollis explores the midlife passage as a threshold between the life we were taught to live and the life that calls from within. He reframes the so-called \u201cmidlife crisis\u201d as a summons from the soul \u2014 a call to integrate the shadow, reclaim authenticity, and live with greater consciousness and purpose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This insight echoes the heart of my new series, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/glynisklein.substack.com\/\">The Midlife Homecoming<\/a><\/em>, which invites us to reweave the often wounded adult self  into wholeness and learn to belong without losing ourselves in our closest relationships, and the societies we inherit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>See a full book review <a href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/07\/living-between-two-worlds-james-hollis\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Favourite 2024 Reads<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The origins of you &#8211; Vienna Pharaon<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Welcome home &#8211; Najwa Zebian<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Every family has a story &#8211; how we inherit love and loss<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to break the cycle &#8211; Mariel Buque<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cleaning up your mental mess &#8211; Dr. Caroline Leaf<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Only Constant &#8211; Najwa Zebian<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>This too shall pass: stories of change, crisis and hopeful beginnings &#8211; Julia Samuel<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Winter to Spring &#8211; Julianne Harvey<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Writing on the intuitive side of the brain &#8211; Lauren Sapala<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Resilient Grieving: How to find your way through devastating loss<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>It&#8217;s Not You &#8211; Dr Ramani Durvasula<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How to be the Love You Seek &#8211; Dr Nicole Lepera<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Somewhere: women&#8217;s stories of migration &#8211; Lorna Jane Harvey<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Garden within &#8211; Dr. Anita Phillips<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-pale-cyan-blue-background-color has-background\">The book reviews on this page include a series of books related to the midlife stage.  For a detailed list of some of my favourite books, see <strong>My Reading List<\/strong> at the bottom of this page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Transitioning to midlife included one of my favourite pastimes &#8211; reading and journaling.  Several books resonated at just the right time, sharing essential insights into this new season. It helped me view midlife from a refreshing perspective.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Aha Moments<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>There were several &#8216;aha&#8217; moments flowing from the book reviews below. I&#8217;m grateful to the authors for sharing their stories with such honest vulnerability. I gained several key takeaways from others&#8217; stories. Such as learning how to listen to my life because it offers the clues needed to <strong>thrive on purpose in midlife<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com.au\/Midlife-Shift-Left-Found-Myself-ebook\/product-reviews\/B0DLC5F8FX\/ref=cm_cr_dp_d_show_all_btm?ie=UTF8&amp;reviewerType=all_reviews\">Book Review: The Midlife Shift<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Mo-Issa-Midlife-Shift-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4987\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Mo-Issa-Midlife-Shift-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Mo-Issa-Midlife-Shift-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Mo-Issa-Midlife-Shift-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Mo-Issa-Midlife-Shift.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"252\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/GK-Review-on-Amazon-of-Mo-Issas-book-1024x252.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4988\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/GK-Review-on-Amazon-of-Mo-Issas-book-1024x252.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/GK-Review-on-Amazon-of-Mo-Issas-book-300x74.jpg 300w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/GK-Review-on-Amazon-of-Mo-Issas-book-768x189.jpg 768w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/GK-Review-on-Amazon-of-Mo-Issas-book.jpg 1534w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/review\/show\/3317231748\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Book Review: Let Your Life Speak<\/a><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"236\" height=\"521\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-7.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2668\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-7.png 236w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-7-136x300.png 136w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 236px) 100vw, 236px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">\u201cLet Your Life Speak\u201d invites readers into a pilgrimage of re-discovery of our truer selves, our birthright gift. It invites us to strip away the expectations of others. And differentiate between the ego-self, the intellectual self and the ethical self that confuses true identity. It prompts one to listen to the ways challenging life experiences, reactions, intuition, and instincts offer insight into the self.&nbsp; <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Palmer views limitations and liabilities as the inevitable trade-off for a particular character strength. It&#8217;s to ease the constant internal striving to fix ourselves.&nbsp; Palmer invites readers on a journey into themselves. There, he says, is where can discover \u201cthe place where your deep gladness meets the world\u2019s deep need\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\"><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/play.google.com\/store\/books\/details\/Barbara_Rainey_Barbara_and_Susan_s_Guide_to_the_Em?id=pdI-DQAAQBAJ&amp;hl=en-GB\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Book Review<\/a>: Barbara and Susan\u2019s Guide to the Empty Nest<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"275\" height=\"428\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-8.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2670\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-8.png 275w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-8-193x300.png 193w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 275px) 100vw, 275px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">BARBARA AND SUSAN&#8217;S GUIDE TO THE EMPTY NEST<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>I valued the comprehensive way Barbara and Susan address the empty nest season. Their insights echo some of my own experiences as I navigate the anticipated empty nest transition. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The book focuses on the different areas of life this season will impact, including symbolic loss, dealing with disappointments, the shift in the marriage relationship, and finding new purpose and support. It includes practical tools and guidance for women facing the transitioning parenting role from a Christian perspective. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Highly recommended to any parent approaching the empty nest who is struggling with the shift during this challenging but exciting life season. If I had to critique anything, it would be the lengthy title but even that seemed to stick in my mind whenever I think about this book.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/50985262-get-your-life-back\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/50985262-get-your-life-back\">Book Review<\/a>: Get Your Life Back by John Eldredge<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"226\" height=\"341\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-9.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2671\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-9.png 226w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-9-199x300.png 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">GET YOUR LIFE BACK <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>I loved this book by John Eldredge about slowing down for a moment every day to pause and reset. It is such a simple 60-second practice, but one that can help you find calm to re-align you in the ways that truly matter in a world saturated with \u2018noise\u2019. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is a simplified read targeted at Christian readers, but the one-minute pause can apply to a general audience seeking ways to slow down and tune in to your spirituality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Book Review: Unravelled by Stephenie Zamora<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"224\" height=\"341\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-10.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2672\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-10.png 224w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-10-197x300.png 197w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 224px) 100vw, 224px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">UNRAVEL<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">Stephenie refers to writing this book as her \u2018final layer of healing\u2019. For readers, it offers insight and courage to begin their own healing journey after a significant loss or a major life transition. Her story encourages us to unravel our own characteristic ways of showing up in the world to identify the areas that are not aligned with the truest parts of our being. The more aligned we become with our inner selves, our needs and strengths, the greater the impact we will have on those we encounter along the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">The book concludes with practical tools and resources to support individuals towards a more authentic re-alignment of themselves and their relationships with others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Book Review: X-Multiply Your God-Given Potential<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"387\" height=\"550\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-11.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2673\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-11.png 387w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/08\/image-11-211x300.png 211w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 387px) 100vw, 387px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">X-MULTIPLY YOUR GOD-GIVEN POTENTIAL<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">In his 2020 book,&nbsp;<em>X-Multiply Your God-Given Potential<\/em>, John Bevere insightfully unravels the scriptural blueprint for purposeful living. It skillfully integrates personal stories with scripture to drive the message home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">I particularly valued the way John unpacks the parable of the talents in Matthew 25:14. He offers valuable, fresh insight into God\u2019s expectations and outcomes for stewards of the gifts entrusted to us. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">A second key point focused on platforms outside the church to share our talents and gifts. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\">I highly recommend this book for Christ-followers keen to deepen their understanding of their God-given purpose and how to express it in everyday life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"291\" height=\"436\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/image-3.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3249\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/image-3.png 291w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/image-3-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 291px) 100vw, 291px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">THE IRRESISTIBLE INTROVERT<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">BOOK REVIEW: THE IRRESISTIBLE INTROVERT<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The Irresistible Introvert: Harness the Power of Quiet Charisma in a Loud World by Michaela Chung offers several descriptive introvert traits to help introverts better understand and embrace their unique characteristics and qualities. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first part of the book focuses on the difference between intro- and extroverts and how they\u2019re pitted against each other in society as one being preferred over the other, which often causes introverts to disassociate from their true selves to fit in and be more acceptable in the world. It also highlights all the virtues and unique strengths of introverts and how to harness your introvert strengths to live the most fulfilling lives and enjoy healthy relationships. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Recommended for any introvert who feels misunderstood within themselves and by others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">BOOK REVIEW: PRESENT OVER PERFECT<\/h2>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"325\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Present-Over-Perfect-0310342996.01._SCLZZZZZZZ_SX500_.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3299\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Present-Over-Perfect-0310342996.01._SCLZZZZZZZ_SX500_.jpg 325w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/09\/Present-Over-Perfect-0310342996.01._SCLZZZZZZZ_SX500_-195x300.jpg 195w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">PRESENT OVER PERFECT<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The theme of the book, <em>Present Over Perfect<\/em>, is focused on exchanging busyness and perfectionism for being more present in one\u2019s own life and prioritising your closest loved ones over everything else, including Christian service. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It focuses on turning inward for quiet and stillness, away from the chaos of the external world to reconnect with your core self once again. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Interestingly, Shauna, a self-proclaimed extrovert has come to experience and appreciate the essential value of solitude, quiet and introspection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Shauna proposes that Christians consider cultivating self- and soul-care as of equal importance as contributing to building the Kingdom of God because they are a part of that Kingdom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In his book, <em>Let Your Life Speak<\/em>, Parker Palmer proposes that we listen to our lives to understand what truths and values we embody instead of telling our lives what truths and values we\u2019ve decided to live up to. Similarly, Shauna suggests we listen to the clues our inner world drops into our consciousness through strong emotions that typically symbolise a longing of the heart for something missing from your own life. This is often only revealed when we become still and allow the deeper truths of our souls to bubble to the surface.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Readers who appreciated John Eldredge\u2019s book, <em>Take Your Life Back, <\/em>which encourages readers to slow down to live more deeply, and Brene Brown\u2019s overarching message to stop hustling and seeking your self-worth, validation, and approval from external forces, will enjoy <em>Present Over Perfect. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The insights shared will appeal to readers seeking ways to deepen their inner peace and stability and shift to a more authentic and spiritual way of living from the inside out.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"307\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3454\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/image.png 307w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/image-184x300.png 184w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 307px) 100vw, 307px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">BIG MAGIC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>Elizabeth Gilbert&#8217;s book Big Magic delves into the depths of what it means to fully live your passions and express your unique creativity. Also, how to navigate the dry spells of creativity through commitment and consistency, and hold loosely to the outcomes once you release your creative works into the world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This book is recommended for readers who are exploring how to best tap in and learn to work with their creative passions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\" style=\"flex-basis:100%\"><div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"331\" height=\"500\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/The-way-of-integrity-by-Martha-Beck-amazon-book-cover.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4011\" style=\"width:239px;height:361px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/The-way-of-integrity-by-Martha-Beck-amazon-book-cover.jpg 331w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/The-way-of-integrity-by-Martha-Beck-amazon-book-cover-199x300.jpg 199w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 331px) 100vw, 331px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">THE WAY OF INTEGRITY<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In her book, <em>The Way of Integrity<\/em>, Martha Beck maintains that &#8216;the uniquely human characteristic of assigning achievement value to random things stems from culture or social conditioning, not our inherent nature&#8217;. Our true selves, she says, are &#8216;pure nature and don&#8217;t give an iota who does it better&#8217;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here&#8217;s the key point &#8211; it&#8217;s not about being the best but doing my best and enjoying every moment engaging in things that bring me joy. It\u2019s not about comparison anymore. <strong>Not for me. Never again &#8211; not with any passion that flows from the heart.<\/strong>   <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Identifying the things that keep you stuck, or as Martha Beck phrases it &#8211; &#8216;brush away a cobweb of false belief and perceive something real&#8217; results in instant freedom or realigning with your true self again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Martha offers a simple practical exercise to answer five questions that can help us distinguish between doing things driven by cultural comparison or by an innate desire.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/image.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4206\" srcset=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/image.png 640w, https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/image-188x300.png 188w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I enjoyed Claire Cook\u2019s Memoir, Never Too Late because it resonated with so much of my reinvention story, particularly as a fledgling writer. Claire offers insightful tips for reinventing your life that better aligns with your innate self, strengths, and passions.&nbsp; I love Claire\u2019s authentic voice that comes through as if she\u2019s just chatting to you in person.&nbsp; Her casual conversational writing style makes her relatable to a reader. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I recommend this book for anyone in midlife keen to pivot towards a life of deeper meaning and purpose. Here&#8217;s a little confession: I&#8217;ve watched the movie (once or twice) but have never read any of Claire&#8217;s novels, partly because I didn&#8217;t know about them (haha). And now that I better understand the common thread of reinvention that support her novels, I&#8217;m keen to tuck in on my next writing break!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">MY READING LIST<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Top Five Regrets of the Dying &#8211; Bronnie Ware<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Age of Miracles: Embracing the New Midlife &#8211; Marianne Williamson<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Menopause Confidential &#8211; Tara Allmen, M.D.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Boundaries &#8211; Dr. Henry Cloud &amp; Dr. John Townsend<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Beyond Boundaries &#8211; Dr. John Townsend<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Called to Create &#8211; Jordan Raynor<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Purpose Driven Life &#8211; Rick Warren<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>X-Multiply Your God-Given Potential &#8211; John Bevere<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Let Your Life Speak &#8211; Parker J. Palmer<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Big Magic &#8211; Elizabeth Gilbert<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Way of Integrity &#8211; Martha Beck<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bittersweet &#8211; Shauna Niequist<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Present Over Perfect &#8211; Shauna Niequist<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Gifts of Imperfection &#8211; Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Rising Strong &#8211; Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I Thought It Was Just Me &#8211; Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Daring Greatly &#8211; Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Wise Mind, Open Mind &#8211; Ronald A. Alexander<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Becoming Myself &#8211; Stasi Eldredge<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>On Grief and Grieving &#8211; Elisabeth K\u00fcbler-Ross and David Kessler<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your Grief, Your Way &#8211; Shelby Forsythia<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Refuse to Choose &#8211; Barbara Sher<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents &#8211; Lindsay C. Gibson<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents- Lindsay C. Gibson<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Healing Through the Dark Emotions &#8211; Miriam Greenspan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Big Leap &#8211; Gay Hendricks<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Five Wishes &#8211; Gay Hendricks<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Every Good Endeavour &#8211; Timothy Keller<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Frientimacy &#8211; Shasta Nelson<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Unglued &#8211; Lysa Terkeurst<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Made To Crave &#8211; Lysa Terkeurst<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What Happens When Women Walk in Faith &#8211; Lysa Terkeurst<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Becoming a Woman Who Listens to God &#8211; Sharon Jaynes<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Women Living Well &#8211; Courtney Joseph<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get Your Life Back &#8211; John Eldredge<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>One More Step &#8211; Rachel Wojo<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Let.It.Go. &#8211; Karen Ehman<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Emerging Adulthood &#8211; Jeffrey Jensen Arnett<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>One Word that will change your life &#8211; Jon Gordon, Dan Britton, Jimmy Page<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Never Too Late &#8211; Claire Cook<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Undaunted &#8211; Christine Caine<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Spring Reading List<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>The Garden Within &#8211; Dr. Anita Phillips &#8211; Just started reading this book, and my reading companion journal is already filling up with fresh insights &#8211; yay! <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Shine On: How to Grow Awesome instead of Old- Claire Cook<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quiet &#8211; Susan Cain<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Quiet Power &#8211; The Secret Strengths of Introverts &#8211; Susan Cain<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Introvert Power &#8211; Why Your Inner Life Is Your Hidden Strength &#8211; Laurie Helgoe<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The Introvert&#8217;s Way &#8211; Sophia Dembling<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__list has-dates has-author wp-block-latest-posts\"><li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/07\/when-the-heart-waits-sue-monk-kidd\/\">When the Heart Waits \u2014 Sue Monk Kidd<\/a><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-author\">by Glynis Klein<\/div><time datetime=\"2025-10-07T01:42:27+02:00\" class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-date\">October 7, 2025<\/time><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-excerpt\">Life often calls for patience in the face of uncertainty.\u00a0 In When the Heart Waits, Sue Monk Kidd invites readers to lean into life\u2019s waiting periods as sacred opportunities for reflection, self-discovery, and spiritual growth \u2014 lessons especially relevant for those navigating midlife transitions. <\/div><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/07\/living-between-two-worlds-james-hollis\/\">Living Between Two Worlds \u2014 James Hollis<\/a><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-author\">by Glynis Klein<\/div><time datetime=\"2025-10-07T01:25:39+02:00\" class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-date\">October 7, 2025<\/time><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-excerpt\">Book Review Midlife often arrives as a quiet, yet insistent moment when the life we\u2019ve built no longer feels fully aligned. In Living Between Two Worlds, James Hollis uses Jungian psychology to illuminate this threshold, exploring shadow integration, individuation, and the reclaiming of authentic identity. He frames midlife as a summons from the soul rather<\/div><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2025\/08\/21\/the-midlife-homecoming-a-new-series\/\">The Midlife Homecoming: A Reflective Series<\/a><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-author\">by Glynis Klein<\/div><time datetime=\"2025-08-21T09:02:21+02:00\" class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-date\">August 21, 2025<\/time><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-excerpt\">Where have you been lately? I&#8217;ve been out with lanterns, searching for myself \u2212adapted from Emily Dickinson. If you&#8217;ve been on the midlife journey for a while, you likely know by now that healing and growth is not linear. It&#8217;s more like a winding road, with twists and turns, valleys and mountain top moments. The<\/div><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2024\/10\/01\/thoughts-on-midlife-and-celebrating-55\/\">Waiting Seasons in the Middle of Your Story<\/a><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-author\">by Glynis Klein<\/div><time datetime=\"2024-10-01T09:47:58+02:00\" class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-date\">October 1, 2024<\/time><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-excerpt\">Abstract: Midlife often brings what feels like waiting seasons\u2014those in-between times when old roles or dreams no longer fit, yet the new hasn\u2019t fully arrived. This can be challenging in a culture that devalues aging and fuels a scarcity mindset. Drawing on personal experience and insights from psychology, philosophy, and faith, this reflection reframes hard<\/div><\/li>\n<li><a class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-title\" href=\"https:\/\/midlifehours.com\/index.php\/2022\/07\/20\/shifting-motherhood-empty-nest\/\">Is your empty nest beckoning? Find out how to embrace shifting Motherhood<\/a><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-author\">by Glynis Klein<\/div><time datetime=\"2022-07-20T11:23:08+02:00\" class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-date\">July 20, 2022<\/time><div class=\"wp-block-latest-posts__post-excerpt\">This article explores practical faith-based tips to embrace shifting motherhood when you&#8217;re facing an empty nest. All of a sudden the nest is empty. The birds have gone, and what had been a constant blur of activity is now nothing more than a few discarded feathers. 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